Insecure SOB

[resident_genius]

[AlaskaStar]

[Don]

AS is very wise and only leaves me one thing to add.....for the health of your relationship and your own sanity you must stop thinking in terms of past relationships. What happened with others, happemed and cannot be changed. It does not mean it will happen again.

Dating dancers is hard....I have dated two in my 44 years and being a type "A" personality I found it a challenge to keep my "fears" under control instead of them.

If you truly love this lady you and she will work it out together through comunication.

Just my thoughts
Don

[mrgalleria]

[mrgalleria]

[resident_genius]

[SeaMonkey]

Have you heard of Glynis McCants?

Go to her web site and peruse the Home Page. Then put your mouse pointer arrow on the NUMBERS tab below her picture and learn how to find your Lifepath Number and your Attitude Number (also those of your present love interest) and evaluate to find whether your 'numbers' are toxic or a good match.

It's possible to avoid a whole lot of 'relationship' grief by making wise choices!

Best wishes!

[Don]

Resident Genius

I don't usually get involved in other peoples stuff or give advice but see alot of "been there, done that" in this.

I never believed in therapy and would only ever suggest it to someone who is displaying extreme self destructive tendencies. I have always felt the answers are within ourselves if we open our eyes and minds and aren't affraid to look (it can be scary sometimes lol). That's just me.

If I'm not mistaken you can be pulled from 'specialty' flight status for any number of reasons including local (or base) law enforcement comming to your house in response to a domestic dispute so be carefull.

I see you are both young still. The military makes you grow up and take responsibility but you still get your party time and time away...her job is her party time and she never get's time away...see where I'm going with this?
Take a 72, leave the kids with her parents and do something fun with her. Get out of town, it will mean the world to your relationship. For instance....rent a tail dragger and fly her to the tropics or a cabin in the mountains, or a historical site, or a resort. The list is endless and depends on your interests. Of course, I don't know where you're stationed and you need to stay within the limits of your 72.
Just have some fun TOGETHER!!!!!

Good luck
Don